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["Lynda" <lurine AT softcom.net>]

Bev, you have run up against a syndrome that isn't terribly common but is a 
fact of life.  Everyone and his uncle has had occasion to deal with a "poor 
loser."  Most of us know what to expect and how to deal with it.

There is also what is known as a "poor winner."  That is the syndrome you 
are having to deal with.  No matter what you say, no matter what you do, 
there will be reframing and accusations.  After all, you are evil because of 
your original sin, daring to question the god like status of the messiah. 
you weren't infectd with the BO virus and thus you must be punished.

There's a psych term for it but I'm too blooming tired to rattle my brain 
and remember it right now.

You can't win, you can't explain yourself because you aren't being heard 
because she doesn't want to hear you.  Save the keystrokes.

Lynda
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "EarthNSky" <erthnsky AT bellsouth.net>


Please find and re-post the post where I said that black people are stupid.
I am trying very hard to overlook the names and slurs you are throwing
in my direction.  I have been trying to be accommodating to you, to calm
you down, but you continue to attack me.  I honestly don't understand
why.  If we are miscommunicating as you suggested earlier, there is no
need for name calling.