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[Gene GeRue <genegerue AT ruralize.com>]

> It's ironic that most adoptees have rejection issues with their 
> birthfamily, but in my case, those issues stem from relationships 
> within my adoptive family.

Bev, you are one lucky gal. You have had twice as much family stuff 
to learn from as most of us. You have done a great learning and 
adjustment and decision-making job and Kate and T.J. are the proof 
that you learned good.

> Life ain't fair.

Fairness is a human construct and has nothing to do with natural 
stuff. Because I like you I feel bad about your feeling bad. We both 
know that the stiffness will pass, but the lessons will last a lifetime.

Take a hug.