RTP-area local music and culture

[paok <bluefreaky AT earthlink.net>]

Um, communication skills are absolutely necessary.  The fact that your posts 
have caused such an uproar is not because of the message (ie, the underlying 
facts/arguments you are relaying).  It is because of your inept way of 
expressing them (by inept, I mean, inflammatory, insulting, and completely 
apt to make people shut their "ears" when you "speak")  that people will not 
hear what you have to say.

Yelling at someone (which your emails are the equivalent of) rarely has the 
effect of successfully relaying your message.

We are social animals, right? 

phaedra 



-----Original Message-----
>From: chapelhillguitarist AT hotmail.com
>Sent: Mar 14, 2008 11:59 AM
>To: ch-scene AT lists.ibiblio.org
>Subject: Re: Well, at least Lou Reed agrees with me.
>
>On Mar 14, 11:50 am, bluefre... AT earthlink.net (paok) wrote:
>> Dude, the way a message is presented is almost always as important as the 
>> message itself.
>>
>> It's called communication skills.  Maybe you should learn some.
>>
>> phaedra, not afraid to put her real name
>
>
>Communication skills are not necessary.  Everyone understands my point
>of view... the problem people have with me is how I communicate my
>point of view.  That doesn't concern me since the content of my point
>of view DOES NOT CHANGE NO MATTER HOW YOU FREAKING SUGAR COAT IT FOR
>PEOPLE WHO ARE TOO THIN-SKINNED AS TO DEMAND INFORMATION BE PRESENTED
>IN A WAY THEY DEEM 'REASONABLE'.
>
>Maybe you should not be so sensitive?  Hmmm?
>
>Capice?
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