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  • From: EarthNSky <erthnsky AT bellsouth.net>
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  • Subject: Re: [Homestead] Spring tasks and taking time to "smell the roses"
  • Date: Mon, 13 Apr 2009 00:02:44 -0400

Sorry to hear about your grandmother. I definitely had favorites. I think that is okay since there will always be one person we identify with more.
I love peonies, too. I forgot to list that among my flowers, but I do have a white one. I have it in honor of my birthmother, who also liked them. My advice Lisa is to treat yourself in her honor. Go out and by a bunch of peonies and line a walkway with them. Think of her as you walk by and smell them.

Lisa Kae Van Meter Perry wrote:


My last grandparent, my favorite Grandma (though you aren't supposed to have
favorites), passed at 4:30 pm. She was a hairdresser for 45 years. She
suffered from Alzheimers for over three years and had recently declined. She
would have been 91 next month. Tonight was bittersweet.

She moved to a nursing home in 2006 when her house was sold (she beat the
national nursing home averages by one year!)and her possessions were
divided. It had seemed like she had passed at times though she was still
living. I wear some of her costume jewelery occasionally and today, Easter
Sunday, we put her vintage spring-themed tablecloth on the table a few hours
before she passed and I reminded my family that it was Grandma's tablecloth
and to be careful to not spill anything on it. Frankly, it's been weird
using some of your Grandma's belongings when she's still around. A good
weird, but weird nevertheless. Now a trip to IN is in order later this week.

Back to the subject matter. For me personally, if I can't have flowers in my
life, well, it might not be worth living. It's a strong statement but it's
how I feel.

My Grandma loved peonies, but I'll order what is in season for her wake &
funeral. Maybe I can bring a bouquet of hyacinths--ours still look good.

Lisa
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