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[Gene GeRue <genegerue AT ruralize.com>]

At 07:05 AM 10/13/2005 -0400, you wrote:
>   What are your questions? I am ignorant of values there so can't 
> advise  in that regard. Sounds like a good deal to me. Make sure you get 
> a note  secured by a deed of trust. As you are about to marry, you should 
> have the  note payments paid into an account in Heather's name so it 
> doesn't get  mixed with marital funds. +++++++++++++++++++ Thank you Lisa 
> and Gene. I've talked more with the buyers and they are  very committed. 
> Here's what they say....... "We aren’t going to wait for  appraisals or 
> inspections , we will waive them. We want this as simple and  quick as 
> you guys do.

Sounds perfect. I reserve congratulations until after the deed and the deed 
of trust are recorded and your funds are in your account.

> He  wants me to sign a pre-nup saying everything that's his is mine, 
> but  everything that's mine is only mine. Sigh......

I would do the pre-nup, but each keeps his own at least until you have been 
married quite a few years. Love is in fact blind. You have a child. Does 
he?  Future legal claims against one of you including taxes would 
jeopardize community funds. I would keep them separate.