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[Lawrence London <lfljvenaura@gmail.com>]

*The Google+ Monday Magazine*   http://goo.gl/I2hGZw
Issue 22 - May 5, 2014

*Conversations that Mind and Matter*

*discussion, debate, conversation, skillful conversation, dialogue,
metalogue, coefficacy*

*Discussion*
There's almost always something we'd like to discuss with other people.
Something we haven't quite figured out yet, and/or something we have
figured out and would like to tell others.

*Debate*
Avoid. Anneal. Transform. If discussions is essentially a residue needing
to be resolved, a debate is a discussion where the individual agenda
becomes slightly too polarized through desire, fear, anger and/or
projection. Once we've managed to sit on our typing fingers for a while and
our breathing is back to normal, we proceed to

*Conversation*
A conversation is basically a discussion with some rhythm and flow added to
it.

*Skillful Conversation*
When there's sufficient listening in addition to the flow, the participants
warm up to the complex responsive processes, usually making for both a
longer and a more high-quality sharing of stories, perspectives and insigts
in the comment thread.

*Dialogue*
Everytime there's a holding of space larger than the invidual agendas in
the conversation, dialogue ermerges. This can at times feel weird, as if
the comment thread takes on a life of its own. No worries, it's only you as
participants are authentic enough so as to making for a listening forth the
best inbetween yourselves.

*Metalogue*
A dialogue where there's a beginning (re)weaving between Me and We. This
always feels really weird - good weird. If the IQ and the EQ of the
participants increase by ten points or more, then Metalogue already. From a
process perspective, the individual agendas of the participants are here
being transformed into collective intelligence.

*CoEfficacy*
There's a level beyond metalogue as well. This level requires participants
fully in charge of their own self-efficacy, combined with requisite
vulnerability. It's so beyond weird it feels like second nature. Simplicity
beyond complexity is the short description how it feels.

Note: these seven are non-linearly nested inside and around all our complex
responsive processes, including instant conversations only consisting in
two seconds of eye contact.  CoEfficacy is optimal for thinking things
through, while Discussion is optimal for getting things done. All seven are
old, field-tested, working sets of patterns.

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*The Google+ Monday Magazine*   http://goo.gl/I2hGZw
Issue 22 - May 5, 2014

*Conversations that Mind and Matter*

*discussion, debate, conversation, skillful conversation, dialogue,
metalogue, coefficacy*

*Discussion*
There's almost always something we'd like to discuss with other people.
Something we haven't quite figured out yet, and/or something we have
figured out and would like to tell others.

*Debate*
Avoid. Anneal. Transform. If discussions is essentially a residue needing
to be resolved, a debate is a discussion where the individual agenda
becomes slightly too polarized through desire, fear, anger and/or
projection. Once we've managed to sit on our typing fingers for a while and
our breathing is back to normal, we proceed to

*Conversation*
A conversation is basically a discussion with some rhythm and flow added to
it.

*Skillful Conversation*
When there's sufficient listening in addition to the flow, the participants
warm up to the complex responsive processes, usually making for both a
longer and a more high-quality sharing of stories, perspectives and insigts
in the comment thread.

*Dialogue*
Everytime there's a holding of space larger than the invidual agendas in
the conversation, dialogue ermerges. This can at times feel weird, as if
the comment thread takes on a life of its own. No worries, it's only you as
participants are authentic enough so as to making for a listening forth the
best inbetween yourselves.

*Metalogue*
A dialogue where there's a beginning (re)weaving between Me and We. This
always feels really weird - good weird. If the IQ and the EQ of the
participants increase by ten points or more, then Metalogue already. From a
process perspective, the individual agendas of the participants are here
being transformed into collective intelligence.

*CoEfficacy*
There's a level beyond metalogue as well. This level requires participants
fully in charge of their own self-efficacy, combined with requisite
vulnerability. It's so beyond weird it feels like second nature. Simplicity
beyond complexity is the short description how it feels.

Note: these seven are non-linearly nested inside and around all our complex
responsive processes, including instant conversations only consisting in
two seconds of eye contact.  CoEfficacy is optimal for thinking things
through, while Discussion is optimal for getting things done. All seven are
old, field-tested, working sets of patterns.

*The Google+ Monday Magazine  Previous Issues:*
Issues 1 - 21     http://goo.gl/EluD26

Image:   http://goo.gl/AaZQpR

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