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  • From: matusiak <dave AT matusiak.org>
  • To: "Internetworkers:http"@happyhouse.metalab.unc.edu://www.ibiblio.org/internetworkers/ <internetworkers AT lists.ibiblio.org>
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  • Subject: [internetworkers] Concerning List Etiquette and A Strongly Divided Nation
  • Date: Sun, 11 Jul 2004 22:48:50 -0400

Propagandistic or not, I appreciate having a forum that exits where intelligent, provocative (and yes, sometimes heated) discussion can take place. Yes, there are issues such as email being of limited emotional bandwidth and the difficulties in expressing nuance (like, was that sarcasm or not?), but overall it is a joy to have so many different people to discuss these important topics and issues with. I don't think anyone counts on all of us thinking the same way, while also unrealistic is the thought that your thoughts don't count and cannot have an effect on others.

Some have said they were swayed one way or another on a topic. I have certainly been forced to re-examine many of my arguments in the past as a result of online feedback. It is healthy to disagree and to work towards making the most of the argument. As long as something good comes from the whole discussion, then it is not a total loss. Considering how the political dilemma is being discussed *outside* InterNetWorkers, I think we are doing a good job of playing within a close approximation of the rules.

Try to learn about your opponent. Choose to seek out the points you agree on and discuss those. Once you have reached this level of rapport, move on to the more challenging topics. It is easier to progress towards understanding this way. Also, if you can manage to have compassion for the other side, then all the better.

Make up your mind and be ready to defend it tooth and nail. However, always remember that the opponent, the other side, "the enemy" is just another human being like you and by definition you will have more in common than not. Always try to remember this important fact. Both can be completely right in their own hearts. Through fair discussion a greater understanding can be reached which enables both sides to draw closer to a mutually-satisfying solution.

That's what we still want, right? To solve problems effectively?

And I hope the conversation continues!

Everyone have an excellent week!
dave m.


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