He wants autonomy, and I want him to have it too; I won't and can't manage him...
However, I'm a little loathe to just sign his name to the land title. I
don't know him *that* well, though we seem to be on the same page so far. I can't really see wanting to kick him off the land unless something really egregious occurs and I want him to feel secure there... so how do we come up with a mutually agreeable arrangement? What have YOU done in this situation? Saying "let's try a year and see how it goes" won't fly, because to even move onto the land is going to require a lot of investment on his part. And long term, I intend to cultivate a community on the land, perhaps even to the point of my stepping away from it...
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