Personally, I think it would be hard to choose just one resting place,
because I like to travel. I've always thought it would be neat to be
cremated, then have the ashes divided up among my friends (and maybe
some traveling money, if my estate has anything to spare) with
directions to interesting places I've been (or would like to go). Then a
year later all the friends could get together and share their trips and
personal experiences of spreading my ashes. It's sort of an expansive
idea, don't you think?