I have a good job and it's likely to be able to weather hard times. And I feel the same way about staying put for that reason, too. My husband will be going into agricultural or plastics manufacturing, the chemical industry we both came up here to get away from. I don't see that lasting too long under current economic conditions. Although
the plants are all expanding right now, they're doing so after
having all that approved during the boom and it takes a long time for
the wheels to start turning to get started building, but it doesn't
take them long to make layoff decisions during bust times.
We had a discussion, or rather, ~I had a discussion yesterday with him about all this. When his company laid him off 7 years ago, we decided that I would go back to work (I had been out 7 years also) and he would take this chance to find his niche in life, do what makes him happy, since he had been miserable working shift work at a job he hated. But he just got more and more depressed and unhappy as time went on and my life was miserable with him. He complained (and still does) incessantly about everything and is happy about nothing.
3 years ago I told him that I had to make this move up here now or I would buy the land with money I'd saved and I'd be moving up here after the kids were grown with or without him. He's the one who decided we could do it now rather than later. During our discussion about this it dawned on me what the problem is. He doesn't know what makes him happy. I know exactly what makes me happy. And apparently it is not the same thing that makes him happy. ..he still doesn't know what that is.
i'm grateful for y'all. this list is the only source of these kinds of opinions i can call on. no one else really understands what all is
at stake, lol.
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