Subject: Re: [Homestead] Just stiff (seriously OT, but I need to vent)
Date: Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:45:49 -0600
It's ironic that most adoptees have rejection issues with their
birthfamily, but in my case, those issues stem from relationships
within my adoptive family.
Bev, you are one lucky gal. You have had twice as much family stuff
to learn from as most of us. You have done a great learning and
adjustment and decision-making job and Kate and T.J. are the proof
that you learned good.
Life ain't fair.
Fairness is a human construct and has nothing to do with natural
stuff. Because I like you I feel bad about your feeling bad. We both
know that the stiffness will pass, but the lessons will last a lifetime.