[Homestead] How NOT to judge

Clansgian at wmconnect.com Clansgian at wmconnect.com
Fri May 2 09:00:47 EDT 2008


I read through this post a couple of times and I get that feeling I missed a 
couple of intervening posts between the military iscussion and this one.  But 
then again, it's we're getting ready to go to the big draft horse auction, and 
although we aren't buying anything except maybe a collar pad, my mind is full 
of that an not focusing on anything else clearly.

Here's my bit about judging, especially on lists like this one, diverse I 
mean.

The common word used in the classical literature and the Bible for 'judge' is 
the Greek word 'crites' which is the origin of our words, 'critic, critique, 
an criticize'.  'Criticize' has two popular meanings:    1) complain   and 2) 
examine.

The same can be said for 'judge'.  It is used popularly in two ways 1) 
condemn and 2) discern or examine.

It's an old saw and an old theme, but on email lists, one  has to take 
everything possible as exmination and analysis and not as complaints and 
condemnation.  If everything is subject to being viewed as condemnation, all conversation 
and communication stops cold.  Someone just had a post about planting 
potatoes.  In the dim and distant past of this list, there would have been someone 
remonstrating that they were diabetic or had Rigilian fever and you CANNOT talk 
about planting potatoes because they can't eat them.  

It is possible, and highly profitable,. to view all things as what the 
consquences and charateristics are rather than viewing all conversationa as either 
'hurray for our side' or else 'you're judging me'.  All things have 
consequences and natural results.  We can lay those out an talk about them forever and 
never run short of interesting things to examime without once ever venturing 
into the personal.

Homesteading has its consequences.  When someone says, but with all those 
animals you can't travel!   True.  Why would I deny it or take it in a pejoritive 
manner?  I can just as easily come back that with all that travel you can't 
have animals.   The one is not better or worse than the other.  If I choose an 
animal extensive homestead, I do without being able to leap in the saddle and 
go where I will at any time.  If you choose to be mobile, you don't get the 
quality of the food nor the food security (nor the animal commeraderie) that I 
get.  

Nor do I ever give much credence in the notion that "this is better for you, 
and that is better for me".  Hogwash.  I *choose* the results of this, and you 
*choose* the results of that.

In today's world one chooses the military.  It is neither good nor bad, and 
at the heart of it, it is not *for* one person but not *for* another person.  
It is a choice, and as in all choices it's best to talk it out ad nausium so 
that the person making the choice has a realistic view of the consequences and 
natural results of that choice.  

No matter what choice you make, you give up something to gain something else.

Talking about choices and their consequences and resultes is NOT judging.


James   </HTML>


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